DALKondersteuning

Some time ago I was asked to write about my experience with the Desteni Lite and Pro Process. Which I Did!  My post  See here : 'From alcoholic to self responsible individual with the Desteni dip tools.' At that specific moment it didn't dawn on me how much I let myself be, as physical Beingness, limited by choices I made, responding at information stored within my individual determined mind extent. Which was activated by external performances. The storage includes information about my interpretation from experiences I had in relation with my unfulfilled needs, expectations and desires. Experienced memories added into my physical body and Beingness. Visible made mind resonance by using the Desteni tools. Influences formed by feelings, expectations, hope, assumptions, emotions or thoughts.  At Desteni we thoroughly research and investigate the essence of what it means to live responsibly and fully. This research is done through the participation of everyone tha...

SELF-GIVING IS SELF-GIVEN SELF-GIVEN sounding: I gave it to me. NO ONE ELSE DID.  NO DOUBT ABOUT IT! The opportunity to transform a defect, gives you guaranteed  a fifty percent saving of accepted energy Repository, because by taking back your self-responsibility,  you make this saving possible. Definition  SELF-GIVEN :  stated, fixed, or specified: at a given time, addicted or disposed (estranged) trashed, assigned as a basis of calculation, reasoning, etc.: Given A and B, C follows. At a given time there was  someone who looked at me, making me uncomfortable. During The next occasion with someone else who looked the same way, during this second occasion the experience of my energy of uncomfortable came back into my consciousness. Where was this experience stored in the meantime, that I was not aware of this energy of uncomfortable, What me  estranged from my Beingness? Why!!!  OMG Why DID I EXPERIENCED THIS F**ki...

Doing things perfectly or in control then I want to avoid critism afraid to make mistakes. Instead making mistakes I avoid discussing or Communicate my thoughts, concerns or opinions. For context please see my previous post.  A+ with Awareness.  Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am afraid to make mistakes.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I want to achieve securenes by doing things perfectly.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am insecure.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am insecure because I expect criticism.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking what I will do it will be critized.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking about I am a mistake.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself started thinking about I am a mistak...

For context please see my previous post wherein I described that I realize see and understand that Circumstances should change and available for me in the moment when I suppose 'it's not okay'.  This assumption makes me impulsively switch from decision A to B without Insight into the consequences. So when I suppose 'it's not okay',it should be available the difference which I assume for and therefore have it in mind.  Context about I am a failure .  People who are considered “all good” are sometimes referred to as “split white” or “painted white”. People who are considered “all bad” are sometimes referred to as “split black” or “painted black”. When a person or group of people is "white split" for a person like me, I can just as suddenly "turn black" (and vice versa). Because there is no middle ground - no shades of gray - it is either / or the other. This can be confusing and disturbing for myself and the people around me.  I re...

In my previous post I described my expectation, my concern before I contribute, already experience the energy of rejection As the result, the outcome of my contribution.  When you come into contact with someone who engages in splitting, you may feel threatened by how easily or quickly they can idealize or demonize you or other people for no apparent reason. I realize see and understand when I was reading These words I remembered my experiences with people in my life which behaved this way and always when they spoke Devaluing stuff about others that I experienced this As strange and Hypocrite.  I realize see and understand that I want to achieve and Develop healthy self-care and being not overwhelmed of my inner turmoil and experience of Idealize and devalue, and instead of narcissistic behavior I want to develop anti-narcissism behavior.  Realization   I realize see and understand that I accepted a personality, A pattern wherein I experience unstable and ...

From what ground does the human good arise? As the good (positivity) bubbles up out of a experience of negativity?  What's interesting is to know what the germ of negativity is, Which is the reason to act well, without understanding the origin of this negativity. To be honest, honestly investigate the aspects of the mind which started to accept the negative and face the germ of negativity by Selfforgiveness. yardstick It is our free will, as our Beingness to accept look and see these aspects. It is the greatest love that will tolerate free will to remain. This form of trust and tolerance is only present within the perfect, as our innocence Beingness. Where neither suspicion nor doubt nor fear is present, the Selfhonest Beingness is absolutely free, until IT  creates its own demons. IT - I Tolerated my suspicion, doubt and fear. My reasons for avoiding situations or people, blame, cynicism and other delusions. And then, as a solution, I use the method of positive ...