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As adults, I still get furious/annoyed when I don't get what I want. For context please see my previous post.  If M doesn't show me sympathy, doesn't ask me: 'How are you doing, please would you like to help me', after that I feel misunderstood.  Instead, M Gives me (whining) commands! Without consultation or asking questions. This way of speaking 'like army Commanders do', triggers my annoyed personality.  I am also Aware of the fact that I am longing for an emotional need for attention, for understanding and sympathy.  Without, I experience irritation. My desire for Friendlyness is not being met. Desire changed into demand.  Selfforgiveness I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed that I behave like the dependent type.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I feel entitled to depend on others.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I expect others to be strong and take care of me....

The experience of how things can be experienced and done differently and how to undo the self-creational process that does not benefit self is done in reverse what one once created.  In one of my previous posts I spoke about the energy of failure and then missed the confidence to openly discuss and speak about the things which Worried me.  Which essentially made me apply an adjustment that didn't matched with what I wanted to discuss. I realize see and understand that I have accepted to adapt to instructions which were undermining my development of self-confidence, my experience of how things can be experienced. Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself expecting that things should be done differently when They deviate from my desire.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I need to undo my desire.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself the self-creational process of desire d...

Make something count: * I Take into consideration something could be detrimental as the result the way I think and act. Compulsive thoughts are unpleasant ideas, thoughts, images, or impulses that regularly occur to you. Art: Jan Megens  To fight against your toxic thoughts you must first identify them. It is not a physical fight, but a fight of the mind. Dilemmas which needs some help by understanding.  Are there reasons for toxic thoughts in your life? In my case today 'the Desire for appreciation'. For context please see my previous blog.  Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I did not took into consideration thoughts and actions which had detrimental Consequences.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that the energy of toxic detrimental things took over control of my life. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I did not took into consideration.  I forgiv...

I want to achieve the things which I have in mind. In relation to others, those who are excessively produce loud noises, for instance screaming and banging on the floor, I realize see and understand: it's my desire, my goal, my expectation as the words I use, my Demands which I have in mind: 'instead that they are producing loud noises they need to be quiet and act respectful.'   My goal is what I assume .  In general, what I experience and want to manage is my idea: I have problems, my focus at goals, my tendency to be and think is: 'It is my tendency to be and think like the trouble character - I live to find problems'. I am always on the lookout and alert for danger. I quickly distrust. 'My life is difficult .  Write yourself to freedom.  Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I assume my life is difficult.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that instead producing loud nois...

I'm thinking why does B never tell me I love you hun. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I from B desire that B tells me I love you. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I experience sadness when I think about that B never before told me that I love you.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I forgive B that B could not give me what B did not received as what I expected to get from B. If and when I expect from B to Love me, then I will Stop myself and Breath.  I realize, see and understand that I can not demand B to love me because it's my expectation.  I commit myself to Stop myself and Breath when I expect from B to love me.  Desteni.org 

Lately I realize, see and understand that I react annoyed. The annoying which covers my critizice. The critique which covers unfulfilled desire. The desire covers my expectation to receive positive attention. The not received positive attention from people who has to give it to me, Justified me 'being allowed to criticize others'. Today I said good morning to a passer-by on the street. Then I said: 'do you don't say anything back when I say goodmorning to you, wherein I behaved slightly annoyed!' She answered back: 'but I did you did not hear me.' Oeps!  Selfforgiveness.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that the voice within my voice told me she did not say goodmorning to me.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I assume because my mind voice tells me, which justified my annoyingly reaction.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I see that I Lately react annoyed.  I forgi...

Scarcity Makes sure we take action. Subconsciously, we have the belief that things that are difficult to obtain, difficult to get, are better than things that are readily available. This makes us even more motivated to Faster get or buy short term stuff, instead walking proces, walking tasks what is difficult to get.  What happens: This mechanism triggers the needs of the reptilian brain to get something. You're convinced you're short of something. You need something. This is the mechanism of craving .  Craving, hunger, longing.  Desire, lust, appetite, eagerness, anxiety.  Passionate desire.  Rare to obtain, urgency, not infinitely available, when you possess that knowledge of craving, you move to action less more quickly, into the choice a conclusion, a solution to not fulfill this need that is triggered.  But first You feel uncomfortable, insecure, unhappy and wants to be comfortable. You want something to get, where your mind is passionate a...