DALKondersteuning

In my previous post I experienced the energy of blame. I committed myself that It's better to ask myself: 'why do I experience this energy of blame.  'Then the question will be: what did I long for which is my unfulfilled desire.' I realize see and understand what is Causing the energy of blame within this circumstances within my mind was, I was longing for respect instead of the experience of the energy of disrespect.  Respect, what does it mean? The Expression with which you show that you accept someone as a worthy and valuable person. Looking after and from this point of view 'taking others view and values into consideration, without blaming if I don't have the same point of view.' So again, look (better) at the other, so that you perceive the quality of the other better, and you make yourself less important in relation to that other person which creates modesty. Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I...

A favourite emotion employed by the bullies and those who think themselves better than others Is in fact an expression of self-contempt as the expression of the Tantrum thrower, resulted in a moment of Tantrum throwing - but as we grow up and integrate into society, we are thaught that certain behavior is not acceptable, especially behaviors that can result in harming oneself or others.  So, I was taught not to throw tantrums whenever I experienced irritation or frustration, but unfortunately the underlying experience, as the reaction in irritation or frustration was not understood or transcended. My parents told me that I had to behave friendly, decent and that I should create a atmosphere of Conviviality for the customers. On the other hand they where bullying eachother. For context see previous blog. accused myself being guilty  An important aspect of the Anger character to understand is how it works over a period of time in accumulating energy - until the ener...