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That person is really complex because If I ask something, then he or she in general, always has counter-questions. The person never even can answer my request as resounding with yes (Be obedient). In general I always expect disapproval, criticism or that I am laughed at, being ridiculed. Through My assumption I always experience certainty that I and my contribution will be ridiculed. I realize see and understand that Through My assumption, I do always experience certainty that my contribution will be ridiculed. Through My assumption I experience resistance, and then I want/ think about to avoid situations or persons whom I suspect will act according to My Assumption.  Or if I act impulsive later I criticize myself. My mother last Saturday told me 'why do you always react annoyed.' This happened after she doubted my contribution and during our conversation she gave her answer, without questioning me anything, she imediatly answered my contribution with No!  Selfforg...

From What does my view of the other person consist of? What a rigid man you are? You are not flexible at all. Your actions stem from rigidity. You can't behave differently at all. In addition, you always brag about the many activities you do for others.  When I think about this person then I realize see and understand that what pops-up in my mind is that: 'you always put yourself in the center and demand all the attention from others. You emphasize How special you are for that what you do for others, you say I do not say what I do for others because In return I want receive positive appreciation.  Then I start thinking so that's why you don't name this Again and again, over and over again, over the years I know you Identify you self with the personality 'how busy you are with helping others', but why do you name it, At every occasion and during every meeting with fellow volunteers. Why?' Awareness is about the need That I neet to step out of my ...

If some change is requested, then we need dare to face our own shortcomings, problems. The acceptance and allowance of choice. The information of decision made which exist as mindhinder within ourselves.  I believe that people should examine their history of creating assumptions because we are owners of responsibility dare to face these assumptions. If everyone will decide to be devoted, dare to look at those preoccupied assumings, then Oneness and Equality What's Best for All Life Has a chance of realizing it.  But what is much more Easily to not blame others for their mistakes. ' It takes two to tango '  is a common idiomatic expression which suggests something in which more than one person or other entity are paired in an inextricably-related and active manner, occasionally with negative connotations. Inextricably-related as an active manner, occasionally with negative connotations, This is because we often focus on the mistakes of others as if we want t...

Measures: 'the measure with which I measure myself. I realize see and understand I will be measured with the measures of allowance.  When I participate in the energy of doubt I am longing for some direction. For context please see my previous post at the end I commit myself that I will look at my realization.  'I realize see and understand that Because I can't make a choice because of it, then I experience doubts what I disapprove and then experience the energy of indifference which makes me feel secure to buy and decide to go to the store and then consume alcohol'. I realize see and understand because:  * I cannot make The right choice,  * I experience the energy of doubt,  * which I then disapprove,  * then experience the energy of indifference,  * makes me feel more inconfident * then buying alcohol deciding I go to the store,  * buy alcohol,  * then decide to consume this drug. Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I h...

Because B did not respect or answered my wishes, how did I set my borders then? Without B examples, Then I had to walk my steps in a open space without coordinates. Co-ordinate as ordered.  Characters I wrote Without the signs, from Words or Assumptions. We got learned to presume: 'when someone prays to die its about this person wants to live'. First we Has to Do things To resist time-honored temptations. Resisting temptations, such as money, Power and sex and new addictions such as drugs, alcohol and gambling.  Once addicted always addict, was the mantra of the addiction health care. Perhaps a point of getting Power over people?  The information we received, as excepted became our mind building blocks, startingpoint of the arguing, control system, speaking about good/bad with ourselves started here.  Tantrum an uncontrolled outburst of anger and frustration, typically in a young child. "he has  temper tantrums  if he can't get his own way". Wh...

The path you take is contained in the views you follow. The view you take is a startingpoint, a choice of acceptance and allowance. An Assumption underneath - 'I will not receive what I need' and the desire 'I want get and receive what I need'.  A cool blog wherein points of Contradictions are Described, in this  color reading, it will be supportive if you like to read. The text about the color reading Demo shows what I mean here. But in my view I always see The opinion i agree on whit what I experience. I've learned to experience it that way. Like a road sign. It's almost impossible to look at a road sign without seeing its meaning once you've come to know it. You usually experience the learned meaning from a road sign, when you see it. That's the obviousness you share with everyone else who also got their driver's license.  As a child I have given my personal meaning to people within my environment. Such as My Female teachers Have given me their m...