DALKondersteuning

Learn to be able to discern.  There must be balance, no relinquishment or resignation and yielding. This requires see the quickness of mind with deep inner attention. We must learn to contemplate our actions, our thoughts, our ideals and beliefs quietly without judging, without interpreting them in any particular way, so that we will be able to discern their true meaning. We must first of all know our own ideals, drives and desires, without accepting or condemning them as good or evil. As it is now, it is impossible for us to discern what is true and what is false, what is permanent and what is impermanent, for our mind is so mutilated by its self-created desires, ideals, and evasions that it fails to perceive purely, is capable of. So we must first learn to consider our hindrances and brakes that cause the suffering in a still and balanced manner. How can you distinguish between who is being sincere [...] and who is not? being Selfhonest  Selfforgiveness   I...

Doing things perfectly or in control then I want to avoid critism afraid to make mistakes. Instead making mistakes I avoid discussing or Communicate my thoughts, concerns or opinions. For context please see my previous post.  A+ with Awareness.  Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am afraid to make mistakes.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I want to achieve securenes by doing things perfectly.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am insecure.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I am insecure because I expect criticism.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking what I will do it will be critized.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking about I am a mistake.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself started thinking about I am a mistak...

'I do not want to talk about it, then I Isolate myself from contact' for context please see my previous post.  'I do not want to think about what I am yelling around' . I already came to this conclusion at a younger age observing my parents and the way they were communicating with each other.  What I noticed was that they agreed to Communicate with each other in a hostile way.  I realize see and understand that I am thinking about words as 'shout, snarling, unfriendly, disapproving and dismissive'. They created a wall of yelling around me, my brother and sister. They got used to this way of Verbal violence in moments where the doors of there business were closed. When the doors opened they behaved the opposite what I experienced as Sanctimonious and unfair.  This morning I was reading in a Virus free Mind In which Bernard Poolman refers to: In that same bible you can read, as Bernhard Poolman also tells In a Virus free Mind That we are ...

After some serious consideration What I experience when I feel indeterminacy, became my friction point, also 'my flagpoint', suppressed within my mind, as my desire because I am missing something, Designed As the word (see previous post) ' Helping '.  Selfforgiveness  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself in my mind I am Assuming: 'they don't help nobody else to Achieve their goals'.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I blame them, they: (my parents) helping nobody else (me).  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I my assumption 'they don't help me, became: 'It is a general law that no one helps nobody to achieve their goals.'  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself because I assume that nobody is helping unconditional, there are always preprogrammed issues involved that is why I think - I am nobody, nothing worthy, useless. I forgive myself that I have ...