DALKondersteuning

Some time ago I was asked to write about my experience with the Desteni Lite and Pro Process. Which I Did!  My post  See here : 'From alcoholic to self responsible individual with the Desteni dip tools.' At that specific moment it didn't dawn on me how much I let myself be, as physical Beingness, limited by choices I made, responding at information stored within my individual determined mind extent. Which was activated by external performances. The storage includes information about my interpretation from experiences I had in relation with my unfulfilled needs, expectations and desires. Experienced memories added into my physical body and Beingness. Visible made mind resonance by using the Desteni tools. Influences formed by feelings, expectations, hope, assumptions, emotions or thoughts.  At Desteni we thoroughly research and investigate the essence of what it means to live responsibly and fully. This research is done through the participation of everyone tha...

Perhaps they are used to it themselves, being treated that way from childhood or a long period of time. You see, if someone has been treated wrongly ever since they can remember, they start to believe it is normal behaviour to act negatively towards others. This can lead to the Reproachfully personality.  For context please see one of my previous posts.  I realize see and understand I developed my reproachfully mind assumptions: * therefore if I experience the energy of disrespect when I do not receive where I am longing for  * therefore I start to avoid people; * which implies Get cut off from my own needs; * I became Very sensitive to rejection; * Feeling empty inside; * Low self-esteem; * Easily discouraged or overwhelmed,  * Develop a sense of perfectionism. Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself if I experience the energy of disrespect then I am longing for respect.  I forgive myself that I have accepted...

I realize see and understand that I assume: 'I am a failure.' 'It will never be good enough for me anymore'.  I realize see and understand that's why I assume that things are never good enough for me. I always have critique how things should go because I suppose 'it's not okay'.  For context please see my previous post.  Allowance   Sounding Allowance 'all I own'. How it's possible that what I can own, in my mind exist as  'all I own' ? Allowance  the amount of something that is permitted, especially within a set of rules, thoughts and assumptions for a specified purpose:  "my baggage allowance". Before allowance got value there was the decision of acceptance of this value.  EQAFE.com  acceptance allowance vs the decision.  Definition of querulous 1: habitually complaining 2: FRETFUL, WHINING a querulous voice Selfforgiveness I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking that I am a failure. 'I forgi...