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Cultural relativism is based on the view that cultures cannot simply be compared with each other. Norms and values ​​would not be universal, but could only be understood from the culture in which they originated. The culture within my family, the norms and values, wherein I grew up was inconclusive. I came to this realization by symply compare the situation. The difference between what was told and the behavior they showed me. What was told to me was you need to behave friendly with understanding. What they showed me in their behavior was arguing and being aggressive. Thefore the energy of aggression became present 'as an expected threat within my mind.' So the environment became unpredictable and insecure. What I experienced was:  * I can't trust the situation.  * I feel threatened.  * I feel scared.  * I feel unpleasant.  * I feel uncomfortable.  * I feel the energy of annoyance.  On the other hand they expected from me to behave Customer...

I started mediating between my squabbling parents because I supposed they will start arguing any moment.  Later, because I already was expecting fight, also in moments when there was no fight, I was within my mind and body prepared to eliminate the negative energy of fight.  Prepared and Acted positive friendly and kindly. Adapted to my idea that I was responsible to take out the energy of quarrel of the air.  I realize see and understand that I was adapted to my assumption What generated the energy of Threat In the form of quarrel, that quarrel May be present suddenly and shows his face.  When this idea pops-up up in my conscious mind then at the same time I remember a image sitting at a table during Christmas. My parents were in the kitchen preparing the Christmas dinner. With every sound I am on my guard and prepared for the fight that will come. But in that moment they didn't Had started arguing. I realize see and understand that I am prepared for, a...