DALKondersteuning

When you talk about I, you're talking about the story of your mind. The idea of self. Your self idea. Idea's which represents images about how people or things should behave or be. Conditioned by someones own acceptance and allowance. The self-image mind format, which reflects the ownership of the expectation or desire.  A creation From the past images looking for fulfillment in the future. A fugitive I, like a wave at the water surface which any moment will change, than disappears.  I am here, as reality, without this needed mind self-image. I am here as Beingness, which is always Selfhonestly like innocence, Without doubt behind the words I use.  Doubt which exist within my self image mind, which is separated as itself and depends on the energy of my mind, which can change every minute or every single day. When I need something then imbalance covers my perception.  When I notice that voice of this self-image imbalance within my mind, if I am aware of it...

From What does my view of the other person consist of? What a rigid man you are? You are not flexible at all. Your actions stem from rigidity. You can't behave differently at all. In addition, you always brag about the many activities you do for others.  When I think about this person then I realize see and understand that what pops-up in my mind is that: 'you always put yourself in the center and demand all the attention from others. You emphasize How special you are for that what you do for others, you say I do not say what I do for others because In return I want receive positive appreciation.  Then I start thinking so that's why you don't name this Again and again, over and over again, over the years I know you Identify you self with the personality 'how busy you are with helping others', but why do you name it, At every occasion and during every meeting with fellow volunteers. Why?' Awareness is about the need That I neet to step out of my ...

Ken jezelf. De wereld en jezelf beter leren begrijpen.  Tevredenheid is een gemoedstoestand waarbij het individu niet meer verlangt dan er reeds aanwezig   is. Men is  niet  zozeer  tevreden  met iets, als wel met de situatie als geheel, of zelfs  tevreden  onafhankelijk van de wisselingen in die situatie: men ervaart de situatie en ondergaat haar als aanvaardbaar. De huidige situatie ondergaat men als aanvaardbaar. Ondergaan kan nog wel indruisen tegen wat men daarnaast wenst of verlangt. Tevredenheid kan ook ontstaan door de valkuilen en problemen die men ervaart te aanvaarden en jezelf toestaan, accepteren in plaats van er tegen strijden.  DALK De AanLeiding Kennen  Jezelf Ondersteunen.  Ik vergeef mezelf dat ik mezelf toegestaan en aanvaard heb te denken dat ik waardeloos ben. Ik vergeef mezelf dat ik mezelf toegestaan en aanvaard heb niet te zien, door te denken dat ik waardeloos ben, dat ik oprecht ben. Als en wanneer ik vero...

I realize see and understand that I assume: 'I am a failure.' 'It will never be good enough for me anymore'.  I realize see and understand that's why I assume that things are never good enough for me. I always have critique how things should go because I suppose 'it's not okay'.  For context please see my previous post.  Allowance   Sounding Allowance 'all I own'. How it's possible that what I can own, in my mind exist as  'all I own' ? Allowance  the amount of something that is permitted, especially within a set of rules, thoughts and assumptions for a specified purpose:  "my baggage allowance". Before allowance got value there was the decision of acceptance of this value.  EQAFE.com  acceptance allowance vs the decision.  Definition of querulous 1: habitually complaining 2: FRETFUL, WHINING a querulous voice Selfforgiveness I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself thinking that I am a failure. 'I forgi...

Each of us tends to see the mistakes of others more clearly than our own shortcomings. The question is 'How I can guard myself against and Stop this temptation!'  Example  Today I replyed at a Facebook post. Then I received an answers back Which I experienced as a unfriendly and hateful response.  Selfforgiveness I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I participate in the temptation to see the mistakes of others. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I see mistakes because I demand to walk and longing for its opposite. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I focus at mistakes and imagining that I can fix the mistake.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that my solution for one's mistake gives me Permission to think, to assume that my solution is better and one's mistakes is lesser.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that my solution as ...

I recognize moments in my life where I may for a while participate in angry backchat and resentment towards someone or something, but then it will seemingly ‘go away’ after a while – this ‘ going away ’  is not in fact real  - it means we have locked the reaction into a box within our minds, so that we may feel like ‘we are okay’ and continue with our day. The things which I see, are happening into myself which I need to be aware of.  link image  I realize, see and understand ''yes exactly - that is where the mind will direct the awareness of self to look at, distract from the actual evil i am particpating in in my thoughts to condem another without standing in there shoes through and through and if one can not do that, focus on self, this is the key i have found - bring the 'evil' one see in the world back to oneself.  So – imagine that when such moments keep repeating over time, we keep adding more and more energy reactions within this box with...

Scarcity Makes sure we take action. Subconsciously, we have the belief that things that are difficult to obtain, difficult to get, are better than things that are readily available. This makes us even more motivated to Faster get or buy short term stuff, instead walking proces, walking tasks what is difficult to get.  What happens: This mechanism triggers the needs of the reptilian brain to get something. You're convinced you're short of something. You need something. This is the mechanism of craving .  Craving, hunger, longing.  Desire, lust, appetite, eagerness, anxiety.  Passionate desire.  Rare to obtain, urgency, not infinitely available, when you possess that knowledge of craving, you move to action less more quickly, into the choice a conclusion, a solution to not fulfill this need that is triggered.  But first You feel uncomfortable, insecure, unhappy and wants to be comfortable. You want something to get, where your mind is passionate a...