Oneness and Equality: Day 416: Who is Really in Control Here?

Oneness and Equality: Day 416: Who is Really in Control Here?: We Fear not having Control, we Fear others Controlling us, we Believe we have Control of ourselves, yet we accuse others of controlling us, ...

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