DALKondersteuning

In my previous posts I came to the realization 'As a result of my contribution I expect An eruption of aggression and violence', Which I can not avoid.  For example, always starting up on a different topic, changing direction or saying: 'I do not want to talk about it, then I Isolate myself from contact'.  So the change which I have in mind is Always based on the assumption that change is imminent. I have always doubted this premise. This is because my starting point is based on my assumption that I doubt the fact that I can make changes possible because I do not have a direction or goals in mind. The assumption that I have allowed myself to assume something that is now subject to change which is not there.  For instance Demanding others: 'what you do, you do on my terms', I accepted and allowed myself That I had to avoid aggression and violence. Those where the terms I started living for. To keep the peace in the house.  When I was living with my p...

I want to achieve the things which I have in mind. In relation to others, those who are excessively produce loud noises, for instance screaming and banging on the floor, I realize see and understand: it's my desire, my goal, my expectation as the words I use, my Demands which I have in mind: 'instead that they are producing loud noises they need to be quiet and act respectful.'   My goal is what I assume .  In general, what I experience and want to manage is my idea: I have problems, my focus at goals, my tendency to be and think is: 'It is my tendency to be and think like the trouble character - I live to find problems'. I am always on the lookout and alert for danger. I quickly distrust. 'My life is difficult .  Write yourself to freedom.  Selfforgiveness   I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I assume my life is difficult.  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that instead producing loud nois...