Day 703 you are the one who values or devalues.
Self-value is a far more useful construction than self-esteem. The latter, self-esteem, is, at best, a function of what you think about yourself -- mostly in comparison to others -- or, worse, a depiction of your ego.
Value is more behavioral than conceptual. More about how you act - walk- toward what you value.
More about how I act toward what I value. In my mind opinion are promises unwritten rules. A Promise as concept sounds like words of wisdom without action. Words have power. They contain a promise to which sticks an expectation or desire. That's the danger.
Sensory perceptions, emotions, feelings and actions that are anchored in the mind based on this promise. Anchored in the mind as the acceptance and allowance of expectation. Which resulted in the way I perceive the promise, the other person and the world around me should behave like. As the way I perceive is a Determination matter of choice. I exist in my Cage of decision like a Determined detainee does. As the decision I permitted myself to exist as the concept of the words I used giving purpose within my mind. With which I Compare my circumstances.
The Conceptual circumstances of my mind I created and then accepted as experienced personalities. Information with wich I Interpret/observe people or circumstances in my environment. Such As idealize or devalue people or circumstances because of my insecureness. Social undesirableness which made me decide that I behaved appropriately and happily to avoid my fear of rejection. Incompetence through detachment with my protectors Which means what I do has to be perfect. The personality of perfectionism wants to do things better because I don't want to make mistakes. Instead of thinking I am a failure I want to receive recognition and appreciation for My contribution. What I also want to avoid because my protectors behaved angry or indifferent is my experience with aggression and violence.
When I was at art school the mind conceptual influence was involved to create physical work. I do not know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. I guess Considering possibilities and translating them into a piece of physical work, my thinking has no problematic consequences. But when I get criticized for my work then it would be possible and could happen start thinking I am a failure because my work Gets negative feedback by someone elses. My work fails which is the Opposite of the good assessment I was hoping for and therefore I did not expected I failed so I am a failure.
The matter with self-esteem It is assumed as a positive expectation within the mind. Self-value is behavioral outcome of consequence by doing and walking the value which gives direction.
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